How to Work Through a Sexless Relationship.
Around 20 millions married Americans do not have an active sex life. When it comes to navigating marriage, when you know that something is not right you may beat yourself up thinking that others have it easy but sexless marriage is not happening to you alone if that is where you are. However, you have to take control of the situation. You are not supposed to be living with your lover as your roommate. When your marriage is sexless it means there is more than meets the eye and you need to work on that.
Sex has its advantages and if your sex life is dormant you won’t get these perks. You can do several things in going back to where you used to be with your partner. Having a diary is very helpful when you want to rekindle the romance. This means there is a specific time when you will be having sex in the day. With this in mind, you will prepare adequately. You are going to have great anticipation in this case and it will make it feel even more special.
The more you have sex the more you will want it which is why it should on your calendar. Taking a trip across town or abroad is another way you can bring back the romance in the marriage. You just have to leave the house for something new. You need the two of you to have time to yourselves. Those who have children should get a babysitter and you should take a few days away from work. There are a lot of pressures from daily activities and that is one of the things you want to avoid. You won’t have any trouble connecting with your significant other when it’s only the two of you. All this will be in a peaceful environment. You ought to remember how important communication is in a marriage. The relationship will be healthy when communication is not lacking. No one wants to be the person who points out the last time of having sex but this is necessary when you want to deal with the problem.
Have this talk with your lover when you are not in the bedroom and discuss all the ways you can find solutions. You have to take the time to listen and it should be a non-confrontational discussion. Most of the time there isn’t a clear cut issue which led the death of your sex life. Once those are fixed then comes intimacy. It is important for you to keep doing this regularly so that you do not let sex issues go on for so long to the point where you stop having sex once again. Talking will lead to great improvements in your relationship. Another important factor for you to think about is therapy as a couple if need be.